Saturday, 18 August 2012

INDIAN WEDDING CEREMONY


Indian Wedding Ceremony

Indian weddings in Hindu religion are made in heaven and are totally celebrated for three to four days.  In those days, all kinds of religious ceremonies have been practiced by the witness of Fire. Fire is a sacred natural element and it is always pure and godly quality. 



According to our Hindu culture, wind, land, fire, water and sky have been closely connected with our entire body systems and natural systems.  So they have been considered as our gods and all our marriages have been done only by the witness of these essential natural elements. If any marriage done by a poor person, he will try to follow all the religious rituals without fail.  In some castes, marriages will be done by bride side.  In some castes marriages has to be done compulsory by bridegroom side.  But all marriages will be firstly proposed by only bridegroom side.



Before betrothal, both families will visit mutually to other family and they will have a light dinner when they fix the date of marriage. Then they will fix a date first to have betrothal.  Usually betrothal will be celebrated by the effort of bridegroom side only.  After betrothal usually within a month, marriage date will be fixed.  Marriage ceremonies will be going on for two days. 



First day evening, there will be procession for wedding couples for a shorter distance.  It will start from any nearest family God’s temple to the marriage hall. Then both will be ready for reception in the same evening. During their reception, a grand vegetarian dinner will be provided to the visitors with minimum 20 to 25 items with sweets. 



Then next day early morning, couple will get married in the dawn.  A dollar like ornament with yellow color thread (known as THAALI) will be tied by the bride with three ties to his beloved.  She should not remove that sacred chain with dollar till her husband’s death.  This is our ancient sacred practice and in our religion.  



Every woman will follow this.  In every marriage, married couple and their family members will donate dresses to their friends and relatives according to their richness.     Girl side will give some amount to the male side for his special wedding dresses and golden ring.  



Male side will purchase a costly silk dress to the bridegroom to wear on their marriage occasion. Also they will make golden dollar with chain. In the same day morning, grand Tiffin will be provided with sweets and fruits to visitors.

In the someday night,   in an auspicious time,    couple will go to bed to start their sexual life. 



































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